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Carter Bascom Joins the Year Round Team

YMCA Camp Coniston is excited to introduce Carter Bascom as its new Development Director. Carter was a camper beginning in 1998 and was a 2007 CIT. He spent several summers on staff from 2008 to 2012 and earned his 15th Coniston Triangle this summer when he returned as an Assistant Summer Camp Director after a 12 year hiatus.

During those 12 years, Carter was a Hut “Croo” member for the Appalachian Mountain Club (AMC) at Lonesome, Zealand, and Greenleaf Huts. He also worked as the Program and Special Events Director at the Outing Club in New London, NH. Carter joins us after spending the last 7 years with Four Seasons Sotheby’s International Realty bringing experience in sales, non-profit management, and leadership to his position at Coniston.

Coniston holds a special place in Carter’s heart. He’s especially grateful for the lifelong connections he’s made at Camp and is eager to give back to the community that supported him growing up. His goal is to ensure that every child has the opportunity to experience the magic of camp–just like he had.

Outside of Camp, he spends time hiking, biking, skiing, or traveling—and is always looking for new ways to explore the outdoors!

Carter grew up in New London, NH and holds a B.S. from the University of New Hampshire. He is looking forward to meeting and connecting with you and the entire camp community in the years ahead.


You may contact him at carter@coniston.org

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Brackett Lyons – Aquatics Director – Vespers

I love a hello. A howdy. A sup. A how’s it going. Hellos are easy. If it’s been a long time they’re even better. Hugging someone you haven’t seen in too long. Instantly falling back into old routines and habits. That person can take you back to a time and place. They can fill you with memories long forgotten. I wish that life could be all hellos.

I remember when I was a camper there was nothing like that first day back in the div. All the fellas rolled up and saw who they were in cabin with. Who their councilors were. And by the time the last parent had driven off it was like no time had passed at all. We were back under the pines and life was simple and good once more. It was the best.

But with every hello comes a goodbye. It’s part of the contract. Nothing lasts forever. And at least for me, goodbyes are hard. I struggle to find the words when the ending finally comes. I remember leaving camp for the last time. I walked around unsure of what to say or how to say it. Camp had taught me so much. But it had yet to teach me how to say goodbye for good.

I knew it was the end of the line for many of the friendships I had fostered over the years. There would be no more hellos for so many of us. As I drifted around I jotted a few phone numbers down, hugged a couple of pals and ultimately decided it was easier to just get in the car and go.

Despite the hollow feeling this left me with, I continued this pattern for years. At birthday parties, or group hangouts I would often Irish Goodbye. Without a word I would depart and be gone before anyone knew it.

Those decisions still eat at me. There are people I wish were still in my life. People I wish I had closed the book with. But I left the last page unread. I knew an ending was coming and I pulled back. I chose the easy way out. I knew it was wrong and yet I did it anyway. I chose short term ease and now faced the long term guilt.

When I graduated college I fell into the familiar pattern. I said a couple small farewells but when I packed up my car and drove home there were many people I neglected to properly say goodbye to. People I would likely never see again.

But after I got home, something changed. I was fed up with myself and my actions. I decided things would be different this time. I picked up my phone and called or texted all of the people I had failed to say goodbye to in person. It didn’t erase the guilt entirely. But it got me on the right path.

Since then I have had many goodbyes. Some when I left Boston to come work at camp. Some when my friends left camp after last summer and I stayed behind. Others were the final goodbye to a loved one. All of them were painful. All of them felt a little awkward. But I do not lament a single one. The chapter of my life that each of those people occupied feels complete, finished, and without loose ends.  

The shadows have grown long on this session. Before you know it they will be long on this summer. It is later than you think. But it is not too late. If you are like me and too often you find yourself standing on the edge and walking back, I urge you to take the plunge. Life is filled with regrets. Saying goodbye to your friends will never be one of them.

If there is someone here, or across the lake that has impacted you this summer, they deserve a goodbye. Go up to them, give them a hug and tell them what their friendship meant this year on the lake. Endings are hard, but they are necessary. Read that last page. Close the book. You won’t regret it.

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Millie Wallach – Program Director – Vespers

I’m Millie and at 11:56pm on April 9th, I began to cry. For context my birthday is April 10th, and I don’t think I have ever not cried on a birthday. When I was 9 years old it was because I had just moved to Massachuasetts and had no close friends, when I was 13 it was because my hair didn’t straighten just quite right and I didn’t like my outfit. At 16 I rang in the most pathetic birthday alone because I could only see my friends on the porch for 15 minutes due to covid, and as I turned 18 I competed in my last ever dance competition after competing for 14 years. 

Although all of these past memories hold a sore spot in my heart, this year as I turned 20 the tears felt unfamiliar and unsettling. First of all, I was just as close to being 10 as I was to 30, which is unnerving in itself. Second, I felt like the 20s had a sort of weight to it, a pressure to hit most of my major life accomplishments in just 10 short years. Most terrifying of all I was saying goodbye to my childhood.

I have always had a fear of leaving things. I think I hid in the bathroom every check out day as a camper, cried my eyes out graduating elementary school, and middle school, and high school, and pretty often as I ended TV series or comfort movies. To be even more dramatic I always count my lasts, even when it feels ridiculous. For example I distinctly remember thinking to myself at 14 as I walked to my bedroom it would be the last time climbing up the stairs in my house with braces on. It has become such a constant fear that anything and everything will always come to an end and no matter how many lasts I count I always feel like these ends have a way of sneaking up on me.

This fragility of happiness and grasping the last whispers of the moment, as you could put it, has always lingered in my mind and has taken up much of my headspace as I lay in bed at night. As with many things in my life, days feel long, weeks feel short, and it feels as though eventually I will be faced with the fact that whatever I am doing will inevitably end and I will have to move on to the next thing. 

I wish I could say I have developed some sort of strategy for all of this, something that was foolproof enough to stop me from getting intensely emotional at the drop of a hat. But I have come to find out that only with experience, time, and loss have I truly understood what it is like to face the fears of leaving. 

I have watched my birthday pass year after year, seen the end of many milestones, aged out of things that once defined my life, and said goodbye to people pretty indefinitely, I have found that there truly is always something else out there. I won’t lie and say that I don’t still mourn the loss of childhood, the end of my competitive dance career, my ski team friends and my camp friends from summers and summers ago, but I do know that as I continue to move through these goodbyes, I find more things to consume me and fill my identity. 

As I bid adieu some of the activities and memories that have defined my life as I know it I have found that there is peace in there endings. Peace knowing that every moment and memory I made will not leave me, and that the cumulative experience of these memories will still be apart of who I am. Looking forward to the rest of my 20s, I know that my childhood is still within me, I dance on my college dance team, I find the occasional weekend to play in the snow with my ski friends, and somehow year after year I still find myself coming back to this place. 

Someone was telling me once about the way they think about goodbyes. They said, if your going to miss something, it means it meant something to you. As I look back on all the things I miss, I realize I’m incredibly grateful to have such a feeling. Although it feels hard for me to move on from the sorrow of the last 19 years of my life, as I  start to look past it I’m overwhelmed with the happiness that I have something worth looking back on. 

I’m still the girl that hid in the bathroom, cried at graduations, and wipes tears at the crux of a movie, yet I am also the girl who can move past these things. After taking my time to face these fears and truly move on and find the next beautiful thing, I am able to tackle what feels like the 10 most intimidating years of my life step by step, goodbye by goodbye. 

So, as you start (or continue) to count your lasts, really embrace them, but let them go. It may be hard to say goodbye to this place for a year or more, or it could be the easiest thing you have ever done. Whatever your next destination is, don’t be afraid to say goodbye to this place, as it will always be a part of you, and you apart of it. 

 

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Honor Heisler – Girls Camp Director – Vespers

At the end of last summer, I packed up everything I owned into one large hiking bag and then traveled over 30 hours to live and work in Thailand. I spent 6 months teaching English to 50 1st graders and then 2 months living out of a backpack while traveling. For those of you who were here last summer, you may have heard me talk about my decision to go to Thailand in a vespers, and I have probably talked a few people’s ears off this summer about how much I loved it.

For a while after I came back, I pretended that I had completely thought that decision through, and I knew that I was going to switch my career path completely from criminal justice to teaching in the middle of this year. But that simply is not true. I essentially ended up on a plane to Thailand at the end of last summer, as a result of what was supposed to be a joke. Essentially, I responded to Izzy Melia’s, who some of you may remember as a former staff member here at camp’s, private instagram story that she had posted asking if anyone wanted to come with her to Thailand. I said, “actually, yeah” and she spent the next three weeks facetiming me to see if I had actually sent in my application. And me, being afraid to tell her that I was joking, submitted my application and committed to go.

For a few months prior to applying to teach in Thailand, I had been toying with the idea of wanting to switch my focus to education and I wanted to get involved with classroom teaching. But I had literally no idea how to do it. I didn’t go to school for teaching, I had no formal training in teaching, and I wasn’t licensed either. I would have to start from the beginning, and I was apparently going to do it in a whole new country which I knew nothing about and hadn’t learned a single word of the language.

Although I was excited to go on this adventure and I knew I would enjoy learning and experiencing a new culture, I was admittedly freaking out about being good at my job. What if I got there and I was just a bad teacher? What if I hated teaching? What then? Would I really come back to America to try teaching just to fail?

I had a lot of unknowns, and so much I had to learn how to do. I spent hours watching youtube videos about lesson planning, classroom management and how to teach elementary reading and writing. I scrolled through endless pdfs of reading packets, worksheets, phonics lessons, and had playlists of children’s songs to help with language acquisition but I still felt like I wasn’t prepared and I would fail my students.

During my extensive panic research about teaching, I also spent a lot of time trying to learn as much as I could about Thailand itself. This led to a whole lot of doom scrolling on various travel influencers’ feeds for any and all information I could find. Every video I could find about Thailand always included the phrase Mai Pen Rai. All of the Tik Toks I watched about ‘the 5 most important words to learn in Thai’ all had mai pen rai as the number one most important word to learn, ranked higher than the word for hello. They were all right, almost immediately, I noticed how often I would hear that phrase being said by Thai people. Mai Pen Rai essentially translates to ‘its alright’ or ‘everything is fine’. And I came to understand in my first weeks living in the country, that Mai Pen Rai was not just a common phrase used in conversation but essential to understanding the Thai way of life. The first answer to most questions, problems, or apologies was always “Mai Pen Rai”.

When I first started teaching, I was full of questions and anxiety about whether or not I was doing the right thing pretty much all of the time. I asked a lot of questions. When I would worry about missing the bus, someone would say ‘mai pen rai it will come back for you’’. When I was confused about how I should structure my class, my co teacher said, ‘mai pen rai you’ll do whatever you think is best’. When Izzy thought she had contracted dengue fever, the answer was ‘mai pen rai, you’ll be ok’.

To be honest, there were times that I would get a little frustrated when someone would say mai pen rai to me, because sometimes I really wouldn’t feel like everything would be ok and I really wanted to be told what to do. I never felt like I could answer these questions myself.

Slowly, I realized that the people who were telling me it would be ok weren’t just brushing me off to let me struggle on my own. Instead they were using it as a motivational reminder that I was capable of overcoming struggles, insecurities, and confusion. Yes, it’s ok to ask for help and need support from the people around you, but often you have all of the knowledge and skill to answer your own questions. That feeling of imposter syndrome that I had was completely self imposed, and I allowed my own worry to cloud my understanding that I knew what I was doing. I’ve worked with kids for pretty much my entire life, and that knowledge and wisdom didn’t just disappear now that I was in a new environment.

Once I had let go of my internalized fear of failing, I began to actually enjoy my job. It allowed me to focus on getting to know my students, and be creative in my classroom rather than stick to a ridgid plan that I thought school was supposed to be like. When I would feel like I just had no idea what I was doing, or when I missed home I had to remind myself ‘mai pen rai’ . I just have to trust that it will be ok. I’m going to be ok, because even though I might not have all of the answers I can trust my inner ability to overcome hardships simply because I know I’m capable of doing so.

For all of you sitting in this circle, you are all here in this new environment surrounded by old friends and new ones. You may have been excited to come to camp, or maybe a little nervous, or maybe a little bit of both. And that’s totally normal! Feeling nervous, confused, happy, sad, excited, or unsure about something is all ok. You just have to trust that you have an inner strength and power that can help you through whatever is standing in your way. If you are ever feeling unsure while you are here at camp, just remember, Mai Pen Rai. It will be ok, because you have yourself and so many people around you that believe in you. So you just have to believe in yourself.

           

 

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How does Camp Impact the Adolescent Brain? Hear from John Tilley

So how can just a couple of weeks of summer camp change a person’s brain?

In 2023, 96% of campers and staff positively reported feeling supported, accepted and cared for. This wasn’t the first time we tried to measure friendships at Camp. Relationships at Coniston have been measured several times beginning in 2003, always with similar results.

Meanwhile, the human brain is wired through interactions with other people. Put in another way, the relationships we have create the brains we develop. In the longest running study of human lifespans which has more than 85 years of data, it was proven that positive relationships keep us happier, healthier and help us live longer. Yes, you heard that right. Relationships help us live longer. More than career achievement, money, exercise and even a healthy diet.

Numerous studies actually point to similar conclusions. And when you combine this research with the knowledge of the reported state of mental health and loneliness in society, the role of Camp comes into a much sharper focus.

Let’s talk a little bit more about the brain and Camp. Campers and staff both cite overwhelming feelings of support, acceptance and care while and after their Camp experience. This positions us to play an outsized role in the adults participants become. This is a bold thing, but again it is based on the scientific consensus that brains are literally wired through the relationships we make.

Here’s how it works: Because Camp is fun, because campers feel supportive, because the culture is based on respect, campers and staff are in a space where they learn about and learn how to be themselves. Now this can sound trite but it’s the basis of being a healthy, thriving adult.

Developmentally as a person works to hone a self-identity, works on being themselves, that identity is used to express their differences and value to a group. Many young people try different versions of themselves and being in a place where you feel supported and protected is a key component in making those choices.

The safety and support cited at Camp allows children to take healthy risks with manageable stress, which is important in learning resilience. This casts a completely different light on a child making it through homesickness, overcoming a fear of water, spiders or even the dark.

Alternatively, if a child is constantly living in threatening or unsafe situations, the brain will be wired in a different manner due to toxic stress. However, even in that case it was noted that continuous positive experiences rewire negative experiences. Again, through good relationships.

One more thing. There are few places outside of Camp where an adolescent gets to hang out and share time with positive college-aged mentors. This staff-camper or near-peer relationship is another key ingredient in what builds an earnest culture of safety, respect and caring for each other. As staff model this for campers, campers imitate and again brains are wired.

There’s a sign at Camp – “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future”. At age 58, my first instinct is to take the face of an old friend and superimpose it over that sign.

Camp is designed for campers to connect with others. Marcus sat and listened, Anna cheered me on when I learned a new swim stroke, Tommy ran out of the dining hall with me to meet a new group of friends. Human beings imitate. It’s the wiring that occurs during those actions that becomes your future.

Our brains are selecting pathways they will regularly use, because we know relationships; good and bad, are the basis for that selection. The surroundings and how we respond becomes very important and leaves an explanation for why Camp is so incredibly impactful for so many participants.

John Tilley

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Alumni Spotlight: Riley Clark-Long-Talent Engagement and Development Supervisor-Coniston: 2004-2012

How old were you when you started Camp?

I was 8 years old when I started at Camp.

How were you introduced to Coniston?

My grandparents moved to New London, NH in the early 90s – seemingly all their friends and neighbors were somehow affiliated with Coniston in some way shape or form. When I was finally old enough to attend back in 2004, my parents jumped at the opportunity to get me out of the house for two weeks. I remember being incredibly nervous, especially not knowing any other campers or staff. That all melted away within a day or two, and for the next 8 summers Coniston was the highlight of my year.

Did you attend college, and if so, what did you study?

Connecticut College, Class of 2016. Bachelors in Environmental Studies. University of Oregon, Class of 2019, Masters in Community and Regional Planning.

What is your current job? 

In 2023, I became Portland Parks and Recreation and the City of Portland’s very first Talent Engagement and Development Supervisor. To sum up my job in one phrase – I work to grow the next generation of Parks and Recreation professionals. That includes recruiting and hiring anyone from lifeguards and camp counselors to arborists, horticulturists, and data analysts.

My team leads outreach, recruitment, and marketing for careers and job opportunities with Portland Parks and Recreation by partnering with schools, colleges, universities, professional associations, and community organizations. I also support current employees in their training and professional development. I love connecting with new and emerging professionals interested in careers in STEM, public administration/local government, and especially parks and recreation.

I wear many hats in my job – as a project manager, team leader, mentor, recruiter, trainer, data analyst, and more! I am also the liaison to the Oregon Recreation and Parks Association as well as the National Recreation and Parks Association.

How has your career journey evolved?
 
As a young adult I had my very first job at Coniston after many summers as a camper and one as East Coast CIT (Summer 2010). At camp I was on Boys Waterfront and Ecology, and was a counselor in Junior cabins, among other duties. After my summers at Coniston, I worked in a variety of different part time parks and recreation related adjacent jobs – including as an intern with Connecticut Department of Agriculture, Edward Pell Research Fellow at Fort Ticonderoga, and Education and Land Stewardship intern with Natural Lands Trust (based in PA).
 
In 2017 I moved from the Northeast, my home for my entire life up until that point, to attend the University of Oregon to get my Master’s in Community and Regional Planning. While in Eugene, Oregon, I worked as the Laurel Award Education Assistant at the University of Oregon Museum of Natural and Cultural History. I created and lead monthly preschool programming and quarterly family day events that tied into museum exhibits.

After finishing my master’s, I moved to Portland and was placed with the Portland Parks and Recreation Finance Team as a Resident Fellow by the Portland State University Hatfield Fellowship Program. After this fellowship ended, I didn’t want to leave the City of Portland or Parks and Recreation. I then spent three years as the bureau’s Workforce Development Data Analyst. In this role I supported the data analytics and logistics of a massive staff expansion (from 500 to almost 800 full time staff) – including analyzing recruitment, hiring, retention, and promotion data.

In 2023 I became the City of Portland and the Parks Bureau’s very first Talent Engagement and Development Supervisor. I now supervise a team of five that is focused on teaching, growing, and supporting the next generation of parks and recreation professionals. At PP&R we hire between 1,000-2,000 summer seasonal staff each summer. We work with those staff to support their career goals and apply to full time positions. To sum it up – I love my job!
 
What moment in your career are you most proud of?
 
Two big moments stand out in recent memory –

•In 2024, I was selected by the National Recreation and Parks Association to deliver a presentation at their national annual conference (the topic is “Growing the Next Generation of Parks and Recreation Professionals”). This is the culmination of 5+ years of hard work with my team – and I am so humbled to be able to represent my organization and my city at the nation’s preeminent parks and recreation conference. I am looking forward to sharing our success stories with other parks and recreation agencies from across the country.

•In 2013, I was selected by an interview panel of my peers to become their brand-new supervisor. It was such a humbling moment to know that the people I worked so closely with every day for 4 years trusted me to become their new leader. I respect and look up to my colleagues at Portland Parks and Recreation so much – to know that they trusted me to guide the team, as a mere 28-year-old at the time, was one of the most humbling and meaningful moments of my life.
 
Did Coniston influence your ability to create this journey?
 
Absolutely. I think back to lessons learned at Coniston every day – lessons learned as a camper and a staff member. And as time has gone on, I am able to look back and reflect on some key skills and perspectives gained at Coniston with even more clarity.
 
Are there any skills or traits you gained at Coniston that you use in your professional life?
 

Most importantly – Compassionate Leadership, Patience, Active Listening, Empathy, Situational Awareness, and Understanding of summer camp and aquatics (lifeguard and swim instructor) operations.

Today my team supports the outreach, recruitment, and hiring of 1,000-2,000 summer seasonal staff for summer camps, swim lessons, and seasonal maintenance. Having worked in those kinds of jobs before, I am way more equipped to understand some of the challenges faced in hiring, training, onboarding, and supervising these staff. And I have a much better understanding of the work our staff do on a day to day basis, as a former camp counselor myself.

Are there any specific memories from your time at Coniston that are still impactful to you?
 

Too many to count. My 6 summers as camper, one summer as CIT, and 2 summers as a staff member were some of the most impactful and meaningful times of my entire life.

• Taking Ecology and learning about species and ecosystems found around Coniston really set my personal and professional interests in motion. It was one of my favorite program areas as a camper, and getting to work in that program area as a counselor was a dream come true.

• Running into the lake returning from climbing Mt Washington was and still is probably one of the most emotional memories in my life. 

• Overnights at Pennyroyal (especially some interactions with the local wildlife…). During overnights, I learned a lot about situational awareness, working as a group, and having fun in sometimes uncomfortable situations.

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Dave Savio Retires

After 23 years of helping create a facility we cherish and love, Sav has retired from Coniston. Dave Savio has been an incredible member of our Maintenance team and has transformed Camp into the beautiful facility it is and this is truly the end of an era. 

We wish him all the best in his retirement!



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Summer 2024 Fellowships and Internship

Meet the Fellows and Interns!

Every summer, Coniston offers $1,000 in college scholarships to staff members who apply their studies to an aspect of Coniston through a fellowship. This year, Erin Herrold and Ty Bears are our fellows! 

We have a great staff of nurses who work around the clock to keep our campers and staffers healthy. They are celebrated by Conitonians often and we are grateful for the small but mighty team. This summer we have two staff members interested in working alongside them, to learn from them and ultimately help them with daily tasks. Erin Herrold is going to school to become a Physician’s Assistant and currently holds CNA and PCT certifications. Ty Bears is currently an EMT and his work experience will be a great pairing to support the nurses throughout the summer. These fellows will help take on different tasks in the infirmary which will allow our nurses to focus on caring for the campers and staff.

Dan May, an Architecture student from the UK, will complete an internship this summer. His project will focus on connecting with our alumni community to inspire the design of a new Coniston structure.

“The conceptual project, focused on designing a captivating new loon overnight spot, is about more than just architecture; it’ll be a creative journey to blend the essence of Coniston’s community and memories into a physical place. 

As I continue to develop as a member of the Coniston staff, I’ve been exploring new ways to contribute to this incredible community. I’m thrilled that this project will provide me with a unique opportunity to contribute in a meaningful way.

It’s an unprecedented venture, and I’m honored to lead the charge in bringing it to life.”

Jamie Ellis, a second-year staff member, will also complete an internship this summer focused on social media to support his studies. Jamie will work closely with Coniston’s marketing team to create fun and engaging content for our social media throughout the Camp season.

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Two New Program Areas in 2024

Meet Grace and Adelaide - who will lead the new programs

This summer, Coniston will be offering two new program areas; martial arts and music! 

Our new martial arts program will focus on taekwondo. Taekwondo is a Korean martial arts combat sport that embodies mind and body focus for its athletes.

Taekwondo can be performed in a multitude of ways including as a form of exercise, learning technical skill sets, and Poomsea – a performance where athletes show the tricks they have learned.

This new program area will teach campers respect, enable fun with values and teach a different culture of sport. At Coniston we will provide a deeper meaning to taekwondo by applying our values and creativity into the program.

Campers will learn exciting new skills and take part in a fun training and fitness activity session. 

We are extremely excited to welcome Adelaide Barnes to our staff who will lead the new program area. Adelaide has won several national titles and won the USA Grand Prix for taekwondo. She was also selected for Great Britain’s Development Squad for Olympic Taekwondo fighting when she was 16. That same year she was promoted to being on Great Britain’s national team to represent GB in the Olympics and other world competitions! 

The other new program area is music. Music has always been part of Coniston and the achievements and passions of alumni have highlighted how special this is. When we look at our incredible alumni community, we see a surprising number of them storming the music industry.  This summer, Coniston will offer a music program area in addition to the Coniston Singers! 

The new music program will be offered to all ages and will explore musical creativity with different instruments including piano, guitar and ukulele. The goal is to create a space where campers feel comfortable working on their musicianship and to prepare them for performing or creating music however they wish! 

Grace Ferguson, a member of the band Luna and The Carpets, will create and run the new program. 

“I am incredibly excited to start this new project as I feel campers would benefit from our music program area. Music is a universal language and something that everyone can connect, relate to, and express themselves with. These are the same values we hold close to our hearts at camp, and I am thrilled to connect the two.” 

If you would like to support the new music program, we are looking for instruments to be donated. Go to our Amazon Wishlist if you would like to help.

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Alumni Spotlight: Hannah Slafsky-Alumni Relations and Giving Officer at St. Paul’s School-Coniston: 2000-2021

How old were you when you started Camp?

I was 9 years old when I started at Camp.

How were you introduced to Coniston?

I found out about Camp from my dad, Rolf- he is an alumni from the 70s and 80s.

Did you attend college, and if so, what did you study?

I went to University of Richmond and double majored in International Studies and Spanish.

What is your current job? 

I work at St. Paul’s School as an Alumni Relations and Giving Officer. In this role I work closely with our volunteers, help plan events, and fundraise for the school at the Annual Giving Level.

How has your career journey evolved?
 
When I was first out of college, I worked at Tufts University in graduate admissions. After that, I came back to work at Coniston year round as the Director of Afterschool Programs, which included 5 sites at local elementary schools providing childcare for 200 kids every day. I left that role to take some time to stay home with my oldest son. When I returned to work I started at St. Paul’s as an Annual Giving Specialist, which eventually led to my current position.
 
What moment in your career are you most proud of?
 
Certainly one moment that comes to mind is working with the Afterschool Programs through the start of the pandemic. It was a really challenging time, and reopening sites required working closely with the state and schools, and being creative and willing to recreate our programs so they could run safely. All while I was pregnant and then with a newborn baby at home. I was proud of our staff and kids who were all able to adapt to the circumstances!
 
Did Coniston influence your ability to create this journey?
 
Coniston absolutely influenced my career journey. One thing that I’m always so grateful for is the wide exposure that I had to many different responsibilities in my jobs at camp: as cabin counselor, Middler Division Leader, Girls Camp Director and Afterschool. I was trusted with a lot more responsibility than many of my peers had at other summer jobs. I learned about everything at camp from multi-tasking, to leading a group, to budgeting, to hiring, and even implementing a new software. I’m so appreciative of the faith that camp had in me to learn and grow.
 
Are there any skills or traits you gained at Coniston that you use in your professional life?
 

I learned a lot about working with different groups of people while at camp. Starting as a camper sharing a cabin with new people I had never met to managing my staff at Afterschool. It taught me to see other people’s points of view, treat everyone with respect and celebrate our differences. This is a tremendous help in working with co-workers and alumni in my current role. I’m also frequently reminded of our check-in day trainings as I greet new people 🙂

Are there any specific memories from your time at Coniston that are still impactful to you?
 

Well certainly meeting my husband, Michael, is one- my two sons wouldn’t be here today without Coniston!
This isn’t a specific memory, but one thing that has surprised me is how the impact of Coniston in my life has continued to evolve even after my last summer. My husband and I have always had our Coniston friends from when we were campers and on staff, and for me camp was always a special connection I shared with my family too. But then, after I graduated from college and lived in Boston, Michael and I were connected to a whole other group of camp friends who were living nearby. And coming back to work year round at camp brought me closer to the office staff. Michael is now on the board of the Childhood Cancer Lifeline because of Camp Winning Spirit, which is held at Coniston every Labor Day Weekend. My parents have been helping to bring kids from the New American community here in Concord to camp every summer, and we’ve gotten to know some wonderful kids through that. And now, we’re eagerly awaiting Summer 2029 when we get to be Coniston Parents for the first time! So, never assume you’ve seen the end of the impact of camp in your life; you never know what’s around the corner!